The Gaffney/O'Brien Family


About 1909

Front Row: Kate, Patrick, Alice
Back Row: Lillian, Henrietta, Eugene, Margaret, Mae (Mary Agnes)

 

1-Patrick Joseph GAFFNEY\O'BRIEN, born about 26 Dec 1859, Ireland married Jane O'BRIEN\BROWN born about April 1859, probably in Dublin, Ireland. They apparently immigrated to US about 1881. While they lived in New York City under the names of Patrick and Jane Gaffney, their first four children were born. Patrick worked as a bartender.

In 1889 when their sixth child is born, they were living in Buffalo, NY as Patrick and Jane O'Brien. Patrick worked as a bartender, a fireman, then as a janitor for the public schools. 

On the birth records of the last seven of their children, Jane's last name is listed as Brown.  On the children's marriage licenses, the mother's name is given as Jane Gaffney.  

Alice GAFFNEY\O'BRIEN was born 14 Feb 1882, New York City, NY. Alice worked as a maid for a private family in Buffalo, NY when she was 18 years old.  After their mother's death, Alice raised her brother, Eugene, the youngest of the children. She was a fabulous cook and immaculate housekeeper. Alice died 19 January 1967 in Buffalo, NY at age 84.

2-Jane GAFFNEY and her twin sister, Mary GAFFNEY were born and died the same day: 20 Apr 1883, New York  City, NY

2-Catherine GAFFNEY, known as Kate, was born 4 March 1884, New York City. When she was sixteen years old, she worked as a maid for a family of two adults and five children in Buffalo, NY. On the 25th of November, 1909 she married Charles KELLEY, a barber, who was born in 1880, in Jamestown, NY. They had three daughters. 

3-Jane E. KELLEY, born 1 April 1912 and died 12 April 1982; she married William Grossman and they had five children.
3-C. Delores KELLEY born on 29 Mar 1918 and died on 1 January 1990 in Buffalo, NY; she married David Pote, an engineer, and had four children. David died 7 May 1998.
3-Mary Louise KELLEY, (known as Mary Lou) was born on  8 May 1923 and died 3 January, 1999, in Abino Hills,  Ontario, Canada; her spouse was Edwin Munschauer. They had two sons.

Charles Kelley, died on 29 October 1954. Kate survived him by a year and a half and died at age 72 on May 26, 1956. She was a kind and loving woman.

2-Mary Agnes (Mae) O'BRIEN was born about 25 September 1887, place unknown. Mae died on 20 February 1964,  Buffalo, Erie Co. NY. Mae never married and lived with her sister, Alice.

2-Henrietta O'BRIEN was born on 31 August 1889, in Buffalo, NY. She owned and managed a millinery shop in Buffalo, NY an unusual thing for a woman in 1918. When she was 29 years old, Henrietta married a salesman, Bert EIMILLER. She died at age 83 on 25 March 1973.

  2-William Patrick and his twin sister, Ethel O'BRIEN, were born on 17 July 1891. We do not know when William died, but he was not living with his family when the New York State census was taken in February 1892. Ethel lived to be eleven years old and died of tuberculosis on 6 August 1902.  She is buried with her parents in the German and French Roman Catholic Cemetery, Buffalo, NY.

2-Thomas Joseph O'BRIEN was born on 1 November 1893 and died two days later on 3 November in Buffalo, Erie Co., NY. This child was a female.

2-Lillian O'BRIEN was born on 11 March 1895 and died on 22 March 1986. She married Herbert A. MELDRUM, Jr. (5 September 1897- 22 February 1958). Before her marriage, Lillian worked in her sister's millinery shop.  She and Herbert had two sons; the older was Herbert A. Meldrum, III born 23 May 1927 and died 29 December 1994, in Haddonfield, NJ.  Their other son is still living.

2-Margaret O'BRIEN, was born on 27 February 1897 and died on 8 November 1983. She never married and worked as a saleswoman in her sister's millinery shop for many years.

2-Eugene Edmond O'BRIEN was born on 20 December 1900 and died on 13 January 1977, in Kenmore,  Erie Co., NY. He was a Ford salesman most of his life. During World War II he worked in an aircraft factory. When he was 29 years old, he married  Viola Florence DELUHERY (20 Oct 1900, Deep River, Middlesex Co., CT,-- 3 April 1976, Kenmore, Erie Co., NY). They had two children,
        3-Living
        3-Living

Jane O'Brien died 15 March 1904 leaving her husband and seven surviving children. On her death certificate, her father's name is listed as John O'Brien.

Patrick died on 15 December, 1926. 

Tracing the history of this family has been difficult.  The children of Patrick and Jane did not talk about their parents. When asked about his father, Eugene stated he didn't remember him, he was too young when his father died; he was 26 years old.

The number in front of the name indicates generation. Only the first 3 generations are included.

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